@kathyl686 I've been through many similar problems, unfortunately there isn't a lot of understanding when it comes to BPD and mental health in general. Often you are not treating like an individual but as a statistic. Underneath the anxiety and emotion you do have a very unique personality and what works for other people will not always work for you. Please do message me, there may be some advice I can give. Maybe not, at the very least I can lend a sympathetic and understanding ear.