The_Heart_In_Chains

I’m thinking of deactivating this account and having everything solely on my other account

-Hell_Fire-

Love this accounts name tho
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The_Heart_In_Chains

I’m sorry I haven’t been updating everyone. I’ve been having a really bad time and it just seems like every time I’m getting on my feet something else is knocking me back down. Hopefully I’ll be better soon and can update again. Happy thanksgiving to those who celebrate it

ToxotisMarks

Happy thanksgiving
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The_Heart_In_Chains

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Words of Wisdom: “The worst pain in the world is loving someone who doesn’t love you back” 
          
          Me: “been there, done that.”
          
          Words of Wisdom: “The second worst pain in the world is knowing you have the love to survive anything, but knowing she is happier with someone else.”
          
          Me: “Yep been there, done that too. Going thru it rn tho.”
          
          Words of Wisdom: “But yeah life sucks and then you die.”
          
          Me: “Well no shit Sherlock!”

The_Heart_In_Chains

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Okay y’all, this is important AF, extreme trigger warning!!!
          
          
          don’t you EVER. EVER. E.V.E.R. Tell someone they should kill themselves. Ever. And don’t say people with depression are sick and shouldn’t get to live. Don’t say shit like that, especially not to someone who has those disorders with depression and anxiety themselves. It’s fucked up, it’s wrong, and it is never to be tolerated by anyone. 
          
          And don’t ever tell someone they deserve to be raped, or i don’t know, that you fucking hope they do. That right there is the most fucked up thing you can ever say to someone else, and I don’t think that’s ever acceptable and reasonably that should be a crime in itself. I do NOT appreciate that kind of shit. 
          
          People deserve some respect, to be cared about. You don’t say such horrible things and then chalk it up to “oh I’m upset” or “oh you’re just a bad person and deserve it” when no, we didn’t do a damn thing and yet we get attacked for it. To attack someone for such horrible things, then you shouldn’t be around other people, you’re a fucking threat to society if that’s how you view things and honestly, saying things like that makes it really easy to push someone to the breaking point where they might potentially even commit. 
          
          So again, the things I stated above, NEVER EVER SAY THOSE. I had to deal with someone on this site saying those things, I’m not going to tolerate it.

The_Heart_In_Chains

@TabbySong honestly this was very mature and I believe I can agree with every point
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TabbySong

@The_Heart_In_Chains I totally agree! And saying someone is faking depression for attention is just stupid. Yes, there are some people who do fake it and that is f-ed up but you never 100% know and telling someone they are faking it when they aren’t is extremely hurtful and can make them even more depressed. I have never been subject to anything of this matter (mostly because I’m afraid if I do tell someone they won’t believe me) and that is also messed up. We, as a society, should not be making people uncomfortable about discussing mental health and fearing that they won’t be believed. It is not good to bottle up your emotions. Rape is something I don’t believe I can fully grasp all of its horrors as it has never happened to me (thankfully) but my heart reaches out to everyone (yes everyone. Women are not the only ones it happens to) who has experienced this. Y’all are so strong. Mental health is a big issue with everything going on in this world these days and it needs to be something we can talk about without feeling embarrassed or like we won’t be believed. I did not mean for my reply to get this long but I’m glad I got that out of my system. I’m so sorry you had to experience dealing with that on this site but you are so strong for getting through it
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