@awecake91 hey there! Unfortunately, I don't think I will be updating my TMNT story any time soon. It was something I wrote when I was going through a very dark time in my life and I would kinda rather leave it there. I apologize if I've let you down ;-; HOWEVER I am always willing to help others going through similar situations.
The first thing you can do to help your friend, is acknowledge their pain. Understand that the reason they cut is a deep rooted problem and their feelings are very real and very valid. Once you gain some understanding, helping them will be easier.
I would also advise helping them find alternatives to cutting. Something I did to help me quit was I wore a rubber band on my wrist and snapped it whenever I felt the urge to cut. Encourage them to explore art mediums such as drawing or writing poetry or even playing an instrument.
You should really encourage them to speak with a professional. There are people out there who care and can help your friend. But, don't try to force them if they are uncomfortable.
Most of all, be there for them. Listen to what they say and don't try to force them to get better.
This is the suicide prevention hotline: 1 800 273 8255
I sincerely wish you and your friend the best of luck. Remember, there are people who care and are always willing to help.
Much love, Emily~
