TomatoToma

I always thought I liked boys who were shorter than me, cause I feel at ease with them, and it's just more natural
          	But then, after that, I started to think I liked boys who were taller than me, cause when I talk to them I get that "I'm gonna vomit cause I feel sick" feeling, also known as butterflies, whenever they r near or r talking to me, etc
          	However, one day when I was showering, I realized that maybe I don't like tallboys or short boys, but it's more of a sense of safety and dominance. Cause, if I'm taller, then maybe shorties don't feel like a threat around me so I'm more comfortable. But if I'm is shorter, it just makes it much harder to keep eye contact, and continue with normal conversations, cause all I wanted to do was hide.
          	So, in the end, maybe my "crushes", weren't crushes, just random people I decided that I liked and were close to me. And it had nothing to do with romantic feelings, just the sense of "I need to have a crush to feel normal"
          	I never had to think about this type of thing cause growing up, I was taller than the average girl, so now when I feel intimidated Idk what to do.
          	(Also noticed that most of my close friends r shorter than me)

Creator_Outside

@TomatoToma I think you like to feel safe, like you stated. Now I’m not much for love, (I’ve never dated) but you seem like your trying to figure out everything, and I think your doing great so far!
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Creator_Outside

HeyA, been a few. Just checking in again

Creator_Outside

@TomatoToma ahh alright. Well welcome back, and I hope they dizziness stops
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TomatoToma

@Creator_Outside halooooo sty ive been off for so long, school and stuff, totally made me dizzy with everthing
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TomatoToma

I always thought I liked boys who were shorter than me, cause I feel at ease with them, and it's just more natural
          But then, after that, I started to think I liked boys who were taller than me, cause when I talk to them I get that "I'm gonna vomit cause I feel sick" feeling, also known as butterflies, whenever they r near or r talking to me, etc
          However, one day when I was showering, I realized that maybe I don't like tallboys or short boys, but it's more of a sense of safety and dominance. Cause, if I'm taller, then maybe shorties don't feel like a threat around me so I'm more comfortable. But if I'm is shorter, it just makes it much harder to keep eye contact, and continue with normal conversations, cause all I wanted to do was hide.
          So, in the end, maybe my "crushes", weren't crushes, just random people I decided that I liked and were close to me. And it had nothing to do with romantic feelings, just the sense of "I need to have a crush to feel normal"
          I never had to think about this type of thing cause growing up, I was taller than the average girl, so now when I feel intimidated Idk what to do.
          (Also noticed that most of my close friends r shorter than me)

Creator_Outside

@TomatoToma I think you like to feel safe, like you stated. Now I’m not much for love, (I’ve never dated) but you seem like your trying to figure out everything, and I think your doing great so far!
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