Optimism was always my goal in life, and I have now discovered the only place I have that is God and music. If you're a girl, don't go hunting for guys, because the right one will come to you at the right time. I thought I had that, I was mistaken. Don't make the same mistake I did. Make yourself happy with who you are and who you want to be. Gentlemen, I suggest you do the same, but if you love her, let her know. :) I use my hurt to give others joy and wisdom. After all, I'm a beluga whale, it's my job to put smiles on people's faces.