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          Ring Finding Game (Aeki Beki)
          A ring is dropped into a bowl of milk, rose petals, or colored water. The bride and groom search for it together. Whoever finds it more times is jokingly said to “rule” the marriage.
          Joota Chupai
          The bride’s sisters or cousins steal the groom’s shoes during the wedding. The groom must negotiate and pay money or gifts to get them back. This often becomes one of the funniest parts of the wedding.
          Mooh Dikhai
          After entering the groom’s house, relatives formally meet the bride and give gifts, jewelry, or cash while lifting her veil slightly to see her face.
          Pag Phera
          The bride returns to her parents’ home for a short visit after marriage. It symbolizes that her bond with her family remains strong even after marriage.
          Name Games
          In some families, the bride and groom are asked to say each other’s names publicly. Since many traditional couples avoid directly saying their spouse’s name at first, this becomes a teasing game.
          Coconut or Betel Nut Games
          The couple passes a coconut or small object between each other without dropping it. It’s meant to encourage teamwork and laughter.
          Kitchen Ritual
          The new bride may prepare a sweet dish—often halwa or kheer—for the groom’s family. This symbolizes warmth and welcoming her into the household.
          Door Blocking Ritual
          The groom’s sisters may block the bedroom or house entrance and demand money or gifts before letting the couple enter.
          Tug-of-War Style Teasing
          Families jokingly compete over who “owns” the bride or groom now. Songs, teasing poems, and playful arguments are common in Marwari and Rajput weddings.
          Ghoonghat Teasing Traditions
          In traditional homes, elders playfully test the bride’s shyness, manners, or ability to recognize family members while she wears a veil.

          
          Pre-wedding Rituals
          1. Roka / Sagai (Engagement)
          The families officially agree to the marriage. Rings, sweets, gifts, and blessings are exchanged.
          2. Ganesh Sthapana
          Prayers to Ganesha are performed for a smooth wedding without obstacles.
          3. Pithi Dastoor / Haldi
          Turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom by family members for blessings and glow.
          4. Mehendi
          Intricate henna designs are applied on the bride’s hands and feet with songs and dance celebrations.
          5. Mahira Dastoor
          The bride’s maternal uncle brings gifts, clothes, jewelry, and sweets for the wedding.
          6. Palla Dastoor
          The groom’s family presents wedding clothes and ornaments to the bride.
          7. Sangeet
          An evening of folk songs, dance, and family performances. Traditional Rajasthani music and dhol are common.
          8. Sehra Bandi
          The groom wears his ceremonial turban and sehra before leaving for the wedding procession.
          Wedding Rituals
          1. Baraat
          The groom arrives with music, dance, and celebration, often on a decorated horse.
          2. Toran Ritual
          The groom touches the entrance toran with a sword or stick before entering.
          3. Jaimala / Varmala
          The bride and groom exchange flower garlands.
          4. Kanyadaan
          The bride’s parents formally give their daughter’s hand in marriage.
          5. Pheras
          The couple circles the sacred fire seven times while taking vows.
          6. Sindoor & Mangalsutra
          The groom applies sindoor and ties the mangalsutra, symbolizing marriage.
          Post-wedding Rituals
          1. Vidaai
          An emotional farewell where the bride leaves her parental home.
          2. Griha Pravesh
          The bride is welcomed into the groom’s home with rituals and blessings.
          3. Mooh Dikhai
          Female relatives meet the new bride and give gifts or jewelry.
          4. Pag Phera
          The bride visits her parental home shortly after marriage and later returns to her husband’s home.
          5. Reception
          A formal celebration hosted by the groom’s family for relatives and friends.