Urfavgirl_lunaa0

Ok update…One of his friends followed me. This is the second time this year that his friends follow me. Last year I had a terrible year, I went through terrible bullying, so bad I was terrified to go out. So getting notifications like that really makes me tear up instantly because of what happened last year. At first, I really did want to get to know the guy, but now that his friends are involved? 
          	
          	Too much, if we were talking, it’s between us, not for his friends to do all of this. Yes, if we end up dating (which I now don’t want) It will be a bit awkward, yk being in the same practice room where everyone will know. But all the girls there are so nice to me, slight teasing, but they don’t bother me. The boys on the other hand is different.
          	
          	I’m not going to stop going to taekwondo, because I love it, it’s my safe place. But I’m going to have to do something about this, because all of this is giving me anxiety and the same feel I got when I was getting bullied. Though it’s slightly different, if it makes me feel this way, nope.

Silvie1325

@Urfavgirl_lunaa0 
          	  I would suggest not letting that guy (who just followed you) Let you follow. 
          	  There are cases where such guys stalk girls and talk behind their backs. So it's better not to let any of them follow you
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Urfavgirl_lunaa0

Ok update…One of his friends followed me. This is the second time this year that his friends follow me. Last year I had a terrible year, I went through terrible bullying, so bad I was terrified to go out. So getting notifications like that really makes me tear up instantly because of what happened last year. At first, I really did want to get to know the guy, but now that his friends are involved? 
          
          Too much, if we were talking, it’s between us, not for his friends to do all of this. Yes, if we end up dating (which I now don’t want) It will be a bit awkward, yk being in the same practice room where everyone will know. But all the girls there are so nice to me, slight teasing, but they don’t bother me. The boys on the other hand is different.
          
          I’m not going to stop going to taekwondo, because I love it, it’s my safe place. But I’m going to have to do something about this, because all of this is giving me anxiety and the same feel I got when I was getting bullied. Though it’s slightly different, if it makes me feel this way, nope.

Silvie1325

@Urfavgirl_lunaa0 
            I would suggest not letting that guy (who just followed you) Let you follow. 
            There are cases where such guys stalk girls and talk behind their backs. So it's better not to let any of them follow you
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Urfavgirl_lunaa0

Guys I really just need to vent sooo I might delete this later. But couple months ago, a black belt from my taekwondo class asked for my insta in front of our teammates. And at first I didn’t mind it so I gave it to him and we’ve been texting since. 
          
          But recently all the boys in the class have been teasing us a lot. It doesn’t bother him, but it does bother me, but I haven’t said anything because all the boys there have a gc and I’m terrified that they will talk bad about me. 
          
          Today I feel like it was the breaking point, because the moment I came in he ran to me and was like “hey can we talk after class” and I said yes. But turns out that all the boys knew and kept talking about it, all the black belts got to choose any belt to teach their forms to and he chose me. 
          
          Instantly, everyone started to giggle, even my teacher and I felt anxious for no reason. Then when we were in line, two boys next to me were like, “he wants to talk to you,” 5 times!! So, after class came and I thought we were going to talk where people can see us, nope. He took me near the bathrooms, and I saw the face that my teacher made and it made me sick. I’m the most quiet kid there and that just looked so wrong. 
          
          I ended up leaving fast because my mom was waiting and I felt like I was going to cry. Please tell me what I should do!!!

Urfavgirl_lunaa0

@Silvie1325 AGHH THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I was actually planning on talking to my teacher first because despite being the student that doesn’t talk, I know that she thought the wrong thing which I don’t like because I’m not that kind of kid to do that. And then I will talk to the guy, because if he wants to continue talking as friends or not, he needs to talk to his friends. Because there’s a lot of guys, and honestly me confronting them is kinda hard.
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sugarplumii

@Urfavgirl_lunaa0 you’ve gotta protect yourself no matter what trust me
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sugarplumii

@Urfavgirl_lunaa0 omg my poor luna wth
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Silvie1325

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          But this is important 
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Urfavgirl_lunaa0

@Silvie1325 oooo thank you!!!!
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