One thing that keeps me till now is THE BIBLE. I am the only girl and last born in the family of six, a daughter to a pastor and a God Gifted Teacher which is my mother. 
My only advice to y'all out there is, God loves you and He cares about you. Those who lost someone and it hit you really hard on the chest, just know that God is still there and He has been there. Bad things will happen but God never takes you through things you can't handle. 
GOD LOVES YOU