JennaMark
@WeekendReader No Comment I’m reading a Jona story, and the betrayed wife has been dragging out the divorce for two years. He already agreed to giving her half his billion-dollar fortune and six properties. She’s a socialite with no children, married 8 years. He lost his entire family by age 19. So in the latest chapter, the scorned wife is claiming he sell something his mother left him, because she wants him to suffer. “I need you to lose something you can’t replace. … You can call it punishment. Perhaps it is. But what I want is for you to know what it feels like to not get the one thing you want. Because you never have. Not once in your life.” There’s several more paragraphs of her talking about how he needs to understand how he’s hurt her and he must pay. So I dared to comment “Unpopular opinion but she lost my sympathy in this chapter.” I called her malicious. My comments were that he already knew what it was like to not have what he wanted… he lost his entire family and was alone before age 20. And her deliberately going after the one thing she KNEW his mother left him was a textbook example of being malicious. It’s literally the definition of the word to be deliberately harmful or spiteful. Of course he’s wrong for falling in love with someone else and filing for divorce. (He stayed in their apt for months and months because the wife threatened to kill herself if he moved out. So she’s been manipulative for the 2+ years of this battle.) Needless to say, responses to my comments have gone from you’re totally wrong to call her malicious (I am not) to I am a terrible person for my take. I should know better than to comment. Clearly I was having an insane moment. Words having meaning, and I generally try to be very deliberate in my word choices. People get so caught up in sympathy, they stop reading intent. In this case, her stated intent was for him to feel pain. I didn’t read between the lines — those were her lines! No more commenting for me!
WeekendReader
@JennaMark It's time for me to return to Jona. I'll add Chronicles of Obsession to my rotation. I find I'm hating a lot of the female protagonists lately -- to the point I'm beginning to "get" why those bullies on the WP version of S&R thought I was a sexist MALE reader. Damn - maybe I am?! lol. But, I even posted negatively toward Raleigh in Abandoned the other day. I deleted 1 comment (where I was wrong on re-read) -- but I left in my original comment that questioned how come she's such a taker and not a giver -- and assumed that this is "anger" because it's, otherwise, the behavior of an unkind and selfish person who takes advantage of her position of power (with groveling Ledger). I didn't phrase it so harshly -- as I don't want to insult -- but I said it. I haven't had anyone really push back negatively (probably because GroveltoHEA has nicer readers) -- but I don't like the wronged woman taking advantage of her position just because she can. So - I'm SURE I'm going to hate the Chronicles female, too, if you do. I'm happy to hate right along with you - hahahaha. Talk to you soon.
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JennaMark
@WeekendReader No Comment / The Pain of Keeping Quiet I wish you were reading this Jona story with me (it’s called Chronicles of Obsession) because I wish you could hate one of the female main characters with me, or tell me how I’m reading it all wrong. Commenters LOVE her and I think she’s a cold, manipulative, smug, self-absorbed witch. I really, really hate her. One of the women is murdered and I am rooting so hard it’s her. I’ll jump in and do it myself, if necessary.
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