@dockat12 This is the reply to the second one. Oh, you are 2 years younger than me. That's relatable, since I dated this boy once, he's now my ex( It was a long distance relationship), I literally don't know what to do since it was my first relationship but we chatted until he got bored of me, since he chatted to this girl, he was very happy about her, like it didn't feel like he was my BF but a best friend or a friend. I was sad about it but glad at the same time since he was being honest with me. After that, I broke up to him in a few weeks later and we parted ways but even though he did that to me, I'll never give up on finding someone in the nearby future and just wait at the right time, I'll just focus on myself for a little bit. Same, I'm also a Catholic, I'm also aware of that and I'm glad that you are aware about it too. That's nice and good luck with your new friend, enjoy and have fun. No problem! Happy to help! I'm so sorry if this isn't much, this is what I think is the best? I'm not entirely sure, I just want to help you with your problems. Also, don't feel discouraged just because I told you about my relationship, not men are all like this, my break up made me strong and made me focus on myself, that's all. I hope you can talk to me again, I'll welcome you with open arms.