WiloBee

Being a good person doesn’t add up to avoidance or not wanting to deal with drama. Putting up with other people’s trash talk and bullying due to their own insecurities and lack of excitement to their own lives. Though that doesn’t make it any less appealing to wish it away and ignore the crabs that bite you down. 
          	
          	I guess to my own definition, being a ‘good person’ would be allowing your own empathy to be present, or in the least to acknowledge it. To think about and care for your personal morals, and to probably not actively seek out to harm others with negative intention’s.
          	
          	That being said, being a good person doesn’t mean that you have to confine to other people’s wishes, or change something about yourself -or at least hide a part of yourself to make sure that someone else may always be happy. You don’t have to bow down, or let others take advantage of you. 
          	
          	In all honesty, the image of a ‘good person’ is just an image, that often oppresses’ ourselves because ambition and self worth are frowned upon because that gets people ahead (or at least keeps us from falling behind.) 
          	
          	Being ‘good’ really just comes down to having a bit of integrity and that’s it. 
          	
          	Mental wounds really just take much longer to heal because we’ve got no salves, creams or bandages to cope with the wounds. Instead we’ve got thoughts and mass amounts of pain. And yes, sometimes or even often for some, are left with scars to bare, but that doesn’t make us shameful, or any less human or loved or loving. 
          	
          	Damn that should’ve been in an essay lol. Thought some people might’ve needed to ‘hear’ this since I’ve seen a lot of people struggling on Wattpad lately. And some of you probably won’t. 

WiloBee

Standing up for yourself doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you strong and confident. 
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yin-amture

@wilobee can you send me the link of Ella’s all plagiarized stories I was reading push but got removed and wanted to read real one 

WiloBee

@yin-amture your welcome, e joy reading!!  ;)
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yin-amture

Thank you so much @wilobee 
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WiloBee

@yin-amture  Sure! I just went and collected these links for you from Solarjjk's message board where people had posted these links (Idk how to find them as I don't have any copies that I can use). So credits to everyone who found them are at the end. I don't have the links or the titles to every book, but it does have the story you mentioned 'Push' ;)
            
            Hero: https://archiveofourown.org/works/3689397/chapters/8160573
            
            Push: https://archiveofourown.org/works/14854490/chapters/34388036
            
            Yes Daddy: https://archiveofourown.org/works/3182744/chapters/6915671
            
            Hot: https://archiveofourown.org/works/8207224/chapters/18804577
            
            Hate: https://archiveofourown.org/works/1074734/chapters/2157889
            
            Escalator: https://archiveofourown.org/works/6359401
            
            Order: https://archiveofourown.org/works/745690
            
            The Heat: https://archiveofourown.org/works/810771/chapters/1530771
            
            ?? (about a dating show): https://archiveofourown.org/works/3609942
            
            ratemyprofessors.com: https://archiveofourown.org/works/870088/chapters/1670773
            
            Nightmare: ??
            
            ?? (She copied the synopsis, but the story was apparently different): https://archiveofourown.org/works/4271562/chapters/9673158
            
            found by...
            @SOLARJJK
            @chamiseul
            @Freiya
            @blue-ribbon-cat
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WiloBee

Being a good person doesn’t add up to avoidance or not wanting to deal with drama. Putting up with other people’s trash talk and bullying due to their own insecurities and lack of excitement to their own lives. Though that doesn’t make it any less appealing to wish it away and ignore the crabs that bite you down. 
          
          I guess to my own definition, being a ‘good person’ would be allowing your own empathy to be present, or in the least to acknowledge it. To think about and care for your personal morals, and to probably not actively seek out to harm others with negative intention’s.
          
          That being said, being a good person doesn’t mean that you have to confine to other people’s wishes, or change something about yourself -or at least hide a part of yourself to make sure that someone else may always be happy. You don’t have to bow down, or let others take advantage of you. 
          
          In all honesty, the image of a ‘good person’ is just an image, that often oppresses’ ourselves because ambition and self worth are frowned upon because that gets people ahead (or at least keeps us from falling behind.) 
          
          Being ‘good’ really just comes down to having a bit of integrity and that’s it. 
          
          Mental wounds really just take much longer to heal because we’ve got no salves, creams or bandages to cope with the wounds. Instead we’ve got thoughts and mass amounts of pain. And yes, sometimes or even often for some, are left with scars to bare, but that doesn’t make us shameful, or any less human or loved or loving. 
          
          Damn that should’ve been in an essay lol. Thought some people might’ve needed to ‘hear’ this since I’ve seen a lot of people struggling on Wattpad lately. And some of you probably won’t. 

WiloBee

Standing up for yourself doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you strong and confident. 
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Polllardii

Hello WiloBee, 
          Thanks for reading and voting for my poems and for the follow!  I am glad you enjoyed the poems you have read so far.  I write them purely for fun, I know nothing about poetry and I'm too lazy to find out!!!  Lol

Polllardii

@WiloBee -  Thank you, that is a nice compliment.
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WiloBee

No problem! I'm honestly really enjoying your works! Clearly you've got some special feel for poetry, whether you've studied it or not ;)
            
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WiloBee

No problem! I'm honestly really enjoying your works! Clearly you've got some special feel for poetry, whether you've studied it or not ;)
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Polllardii

Hello WiloBee, 
          Thanks for reading and voting for my poems and for the follow!  I am glad you enjoyed the poems you have read so far.  I write them purely for fun, I know nothing about poetry and I'm too lazy to find out!!!  Lol