Hiya. I read your bio and saw that you need a few suggestions. Well
For a book? Of course it's my own it's called Young, Successful, and...Bullied? Check it out. You just may like it
For a husband? Well there's always Augustus Waters but he died and he's a bit too young for you....so how about Four? Ya know, from the Divergent series. There's also Jacob from Twilight and Jace from the Mortal Instruments series.
Well, I hope you like my suggestions.