@XxShyFoxxX Fox, I cannot imagine the pain you're going through since it's probably a lot. Just remember that your daughter is now happy in heaven, and she didn't have to got through life's painful obstacles. Though, I can tell that my words won't make you feel better since she was your child.
Honestly, it's none of my business why your wife(who I'm guessing is Heart) is in a coma, but I'm sure she'll wake up from it. I'll be praying for her.
If you ever need someone to talk to, you know that I'm here? You don't have to tell me the details, just saying "I'm feeling sad" will make me send you lots of comfort.
I don't know what BPD is, but I hope you get better.