I need everyone to be deadass serious right now. So lately I’ve been thinking about myself and I started to question if I have a victim mentality or if I was actually a victim in a situation. I really hope I was just a victim because I myself find victim mentality people annoying, and I don’t want to seem annoying or complaining to others.
So a week or so ago, person A had gotten pushed into the wall and had hurt her finger. She accidentally ran into person B and I was there so I saw it happen. Person B felt really bad that she had unintentionally hurt person A. So around a week later somebody walked person A what had happened to her finger. Let me add that person A has been telling everyone that person b pushed her on accident yet everyone is still blaming person b and I can tell it really affects b. So when the person asks A what happened. A goes,”person b pushed me into a wall-“ but I said person b didn’t push you, it was an accident. But I didn’t know that A had said accident because I was tired of ppl blaming b so when I said that a’s mood went sour and when I walked out for our breaks, I saw my friend group huddled in a small circle and me and b were walking with each other as I had to go to the bathroom. So when I do walk ahead person a gives me a nasty look and I knew she was talking abt me. Flash forward she was being mean still so I blocked her bc she always sends me angry rants saying I did something I don’t recall doing. She got mad and I looked to see my gmail (she emails me) and you can see the blockers texts. She was calling me autistic and annoying. (She has blocked me before) so I said WOMP WOMP, how does it feel. Then she went on to say I have been nudging her when she was talking to b but I don’t stand near a when she is talking to b much and I don’t remember ‘nudging’ her. Mind you, I move my body around a lot too, but I very may well be nudging her even though I really don’t think I am. So I told her that and she then got mad I apologized.