Thank you,it's hard to find people who understand it,I used to have depression,and I didn't explain every aspect of it but my depression was based on abuse and self hatred, I had a bad past with my family and multiple kinds of abuse and all ways thought it was my fault, and the girl in question is actualy mind friend has apologized for claiming to be depressed, and having a worse past than me which is really what set meoff, so thank you for understanding, I was always looking for a councilor who understood how I felt when I was in my depression but couldn't find one so I just gave up, but yes that's the way I felt :)
