Twice divorced mother of three. Keeping my standards high. If there is any chance to be with the right person then he obviously is someone who went through the same phases of life and I hope he lived it 3 years or 2 years before me in every year of his life. It doesn't always have to be about the phases of marriages and divorces but it could be that people didn't appreciate him. If I got lucky then he would be a look alike to someone well known but his mentality and way of thinking is just like mine. He is willing to be someone who would take risk and be a warrior and a survivor. He doesn't look at me as a bank account. He doesn't care how much he spends on me because he knows what I think when everyone around me makes sure my parents don't know the truth about me. He understands that it's better to accept people for their narrow way of thinking rather than explain who you truly are. His standards are high like mine. He stopped forcing himself to be twisting his dreams that he wished they would come true and started thinking on how life would be when he starts spending on me.