You guys each have a goal in life. Whether you know it or not. Whether it's big or small, insane or perfectly normal. But the key thing is you gotta believe in yourself!! I know it sounds corny as hell but you have to stop comparing yourself to other people!! Or you'll end up being an insecure mess!
Here's the trick, camp are yourself to the old you. Compare yourself today to who you were yesterday, or a month ago, or a few years ago, see how far you've gotten! And if you don't think you've gotten to be a better you over time then push yourself to be better tomorrow than you were today!! And even if you don't believe in yourself, there's always that one person cheering for you. My best friend, she's been through everything with me. Everything. And she always keeps a positive attitude when I can't. Again sorry, getting off topic. If you have a goal in life and you want it SO bad. Like it's all you think about you can't wait until that day you CAN do it and how happy it makes you feel, don't ruin it by comparing yourself to others. There's always going to be someone better than you, and that's OK. Did you see that? I said it's OK for people to be better than you. Because there's always going to be that one person that's better than you. Don't let that get you down! Make yourself a better you. Don't try to live up to their expectations. Don't listen to your family when they say "why don't you be this because then I -fill in the blank-" THIS IS YOUR LIFE. AND YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE. DO YOU WANT TO LIVE IN REGRET, THINKING TO YOURSELF WHEN YOU GET OLDER, "I wish I did that." OR "I wish I had tried Harder." OR DO YOU WANT TO LOOK BACK AT HOW MUCH YOU WANTED TO DO IT. HOW HARD YOU WANTED TO TRY. HOW YOU NEVER STOPPED THINKING ABOUT IT HOW YOU COULD FEEL THE COURAGE FLOWING THROUGH YOUR VANES AND SAY, "I made it."