_borntobereal

jooo - does anyone here know how to deal with gender dysphoria? 
          	
          	it's making me feel so ill istg and i don't know what to do.
          	

_borntobereal

@nussschnecke sincerely, thank you so much. i can really use some parts of this advice well and maybe i can deal with it better<3
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nussschnecke

@_borntobereal hey :)
          	  so this is just internet research n you've probably done a bunch of that already but in case this helps: 
          	  - write down feelings/situations whatever. for me writing down things helps me a lot to cope with - well, basically everything. maybe it does for you tooo. 
          	  - talk to a supportive person you trust. personally, i find it very difficult to open up to people but it is important as this can make you feel more seen and understood. also, sometimes it is enough when someone knows ur not having the best time and can offer you some support
          	  - excercise helps to improve your mood and can possibly help shaping your body in a way that might reduce ur dysphoria. also you define your body as well by what it can do and not only by its gender. 
          	  - connect with nature. ur a part of it. you're a human being and worthy of the sun kissing your skin, the grass below your feet, the fresh air in your face. 
          	  - get enough sleep. 
          	  - make yourself an escape plan. what can you do when the feeling gets unbearable? what calms you down in situation like these? it could be listening to calming musik, reading something, idk, for me it is laying on the  bathroom floor (i know right. but it really helps to see things from a different angle - in every sense of the word :)
          	  - your body does not define your gender. tell yourself. say it into the mirror. say it out loud. you're okay. 
          	  
          	  i hope you find healthy ways to deal with this. lots of love
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Huffelpuffy_15

@ _borntobereal  ah jetzt weiß ich was du meinst. Ja ich bin deutsch. Ich unterstütze dich 
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_borntobereal

jooo - does anyone here know how to deal with gender dysphoria? 
          
          it's making me feel so ill istg and i don't know what to do.
          

_borntobereal

@nussschnecke sincerely, thank you so much. i can really use some parts of this advice well and maybe i can deal with it better<3
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nussschnecke

@_borntobereal hey :)
            so this is just internet research n you've probably done a bunch of that already but in case this helps: 
            - write down feelings/situations whatever. for me writing down things helps me a lot to cope with - well, basically everything. maybe it does for you tooo. 
            - talk to a supportive person you trust. personally, i find it very difficult to open up to people but it is important as this can make you feel more seen and understood. also, sometimes it is enough when someone knows ur not having the best time and can offer you some support
            - excercise helps to improve your mood and can possibly help shaping your body in a way that might reduce ur dysphoria. also you define your body as well by what it can do and not only by its gender. 
            - connect with nature. ur a part of it. you're a human being and worthy of the sun kissing your skin, the grass below your feet, the fresh air in your face. 
            - get enough sleep. 
            - make yourself an escape plan. what can you do when the feeling gets unbearable? what calms you down in situation like these? it could be listening to calming musik, reading something, idk, for me it is laying on the  bathroom floor (i know right. but it really helps to see things from a different angle - in every sense of the word :)
            - your body does not define your gender. tell yourself. say it into the mirror. say it out loud. you're okay. 
            
            i hope you find healthy ways to deal with this. lots of love
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Huffelpuffy_15

@ _borntobereal  ah jetzt weiß ich was du meinst. Ja ich bin deutsch. Ich unterstütze dich 
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_borntobereal

to all my fellow marauders fans out here - the struggle is real istg. 
          
          i'm watching all harry potter movies with my brother rn and yesterday we watched the fourth one. 
          of course, i was very very happy, wenn barty appeared and squealed as evan was mentioned. 
          
          my brother thinks i'm a psychopath for loving barty crouch jr and freaking out bc of a character that was mentioned ONCE. 
          
          how do i explain to him that they were lovers??

_borntobereal

@-meinungsloseee- :') 
            mal schauen. 
            als nächstes kommt auch noch der fünfte teil und how to be normal about wolfstar??? tut weh.
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-meinungsloseee-

@_borntobereal  HAHAHAHAHA mach einfach und versuch nicht komplett wie ein Psychopath zu klingen<3
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_borntobereal

ich hab wieder was neues veröffentlicht!!! 
          ein charakterbuch voller steckbriefe für die charaktere meiner fanfictions, für mehr informationen, übersicht und einfach nur zum durchstöbern. 
          
          würde mich freuen, wenn ihr vorbeischaut :)
          
          evin
          
          https://www.wattpad.com/story/379417289

elementary-stories

 wird sich direkt durchgelesen 
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_borntobereal

i didn't realise it but at some point between my fourteen year old self and now i overcame my social anxiety.
          
          i had to sing infront of the whole school today and instead of being anxious and stuff, i was actually excited. i'm so happy.

eyrestria

proud of you! ♡
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_borntobereal

it‘s my third day back in school.
          i‘m already so done, man.

_borntobereal

@ Wer12wol3f 
            kriminell sein is mein hobby haha
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nussschnecke

@_borntobereal same bro ._.
            but we got thisss
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