a_purple_girl
Sometimes I don't get the concept of 'bare minimum'
I mean it's only right to find someone who treats you like their best treasure but... sometimes... I mean aren't you supposed to be enjoying little moments too? Even if it's bare minimum, even if it's just basic manners.
But I feel like, most of this is because now a days even bare minimum is a luxury and thus we end up thinking of it as something really great while it's really just something really basic.
Nvm.. Idk what I'm trying to say here either... I'm as confused ☠️
hwanged_
@a_purple_girl I think it mostly depends on mutual understanding and where each others' standards lie- something bare minimum for one might be luxury for other Hamare liye toh yeh sab luxury hai :'3
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a_purple_girl
@roamforpeace ahhh how do you always have the best, rightest(?), most appropriate words to say it any situation?!?!? Akskakdjakjsks you're amazing lmao And yes yes I completely get it, deep down I already knew but it's crazy how much I overthink so I just put it out there. TT TT I mean you're right... lo Kar diya delete But... nvm ☠️
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roamforpeace
@a_purple_girl aaaa I see! This concept has come up because of the internet. The concept of bare minimum arises so we don't let basic decency fool us into an eventually toxic relationship because women usually pin upon the most basic things and give reasons for why they should stay even after horrendous things are done. However, we are all adults and I think it's your relationship and you and your partner can only decide what's bare minimum and what's not. Internet could exaggerate and yap about how if your bf didnt give you a dior lip balm he isn't doing the bare minimum lmao- you would be more self-aware. As long as you are happy, he treats you right. That's all right. And these gestures might sound basic decency but we all know how low a man's emotional intelligence is...so it's kinda cute and very thoughtful. A man with empathy is surely not just a bare minimum. If he looks out for you be happy gurl! Also don't share zyada special moments with your peers. Nazar is real I'm not kidding !!?
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