hey there,
So, today, I am actually here for something I saw today in a YouTube video.
I would first tell you guys, I love BL novels and loves to read them and honestly, I find them great and would love to be a person to talk to if you have something to share related to the novels and everything.
I was watching this nice video of a gay couple and i wanted to say, they were the cutest and most greatest couple I've ever seen.
Then, as I was scrolling through some cute comments, I read one that was utterly disgusting because it kind of denied something I always believed in.
The word soulmate doesn't have a gender according to your gender, cause if it does, I'd rather have no soulmate.
To some people soulmate is a cat or dog who they could take care for whole their lives and never marry a person or a human. When i was young, I always thought I don't wanna marry and would rather settle down like a old woman knitting sweaters and taking care of my pets.
Though, I am not sure if that's what I want now but yeah, that's what I thought at that time.
Soulmates are people or anyone you think, you can spend your life with.
Love isn't bound by genders, in all honesty, if you can't respect, then also, don't be an a-hole to people who are not like you or are different. And actually, they are not different or anything, it's us who are different for not accepting them. Let love pave their way for them, let it be common, let it be happiness. Don't make love into something disgusting by categorizing it between gender or some stupid concepts that you have in your mind.
They don't need your acceptance but you definitely need to mind your own business.
Having love is a blessing and god never said that gender is what we are defined by. Everyone needs to understand this, what we think is our problem, what we are is our problem, but what you think should never become my problem and thus, keep your thinking and your rudeness to yourself than spreading it around.