aesnams

@aesnams ce n'est pas la modestie qui t'étouffe boy

@aesnams  ohlala certains je me sens indexé. Et si je dis que tu es un mulâtre, tu en serais vexé ?
            
            Donc moi vu que ma mère est belge et mon père français, je suis métisse selon toi ? Vu que tu considères le metissage comme une liaison de cultures.

@dwahyung  avec un ventre de gorille et une tête de cheval !
            
            Comme certains ont l'habitude de le penser à tort, métisse n'est pas une couleur de peau. Je suis donc un mélange de culture étrange qui a eu pour effet de créer l'être exceptionnel avec qui tu as actuellement le privilège de discuter :)

@aesnams  sinon comment tu trouves le bachelor ? Je le trouve grave beau et intelligent

@aesnams je me suis taguée oups

@ Heishuna  et sinon je kiffe trop la basketteuse là elle a trop de flow, c'est qui ta pref entre les candidates ?

@aesnams  you too are a good conversationalist and more intelligent, obviously it makes you fall in love without a second thought. It's cool

@aesnams  no worries, yes friends

@dwahyung  we call ourselves friends ?

@aesnams  If I tell you that it's because I'm thinking about you, will you find me intrusive?

@dwahyung  okay bugs bunny on va se calmer lmao. Sinon pourquoi tu ne dors pas à 2h du mat' without wanting to be intrusive ?

@aesnams et 400€ de billet d'avion pour le coup

@Heishuna  ce sont les histoires que je lis qui sont une masterclass -`ღ´-

@aesnams  Yes, I think that these models can clearly slow me down in my way of seeing and experiencing love. We often have the impression that we have to follow a very specific pattern to be "in the norm", whether in terms of roles in the relationship, the way of loving or even the steps to take. And when we don't follow this model, we feel out of step, as if our way of loving was not legitimate. It’s frustrating because deep down, every relationship is different, every person has their own needs and ways of expressing themselves in love. So why want to standardize something so intimate and personal? I think it's important to detach yourself from these preconceived ideas and focus on what really works for you and your partner, without worrying about what the outside world looks like. And you, do you sometimes feel this pressure of having to fit into these social norms or expectations ?

@dwahyung  I do think that these models imposed by society can sometimes hold us back, yes. They create unrealistic expectations of what a “normal” relationship should look like. So, when we don't recognize ourselves or experience something different, we feel judged or outside the norm. It can also lead to compromise on what we really feel, just to fit into the mold, and that, I find, is a real problem. Everyone should have the freedom to love in their own way, without necessarily feeling constrained by social rules or external judgments. Because deep down, love is a complex and personal emotion, and wanting to normalize it is in some way to take away its diversity and richness. I wonder what you think about it too, do you think that these models sometimes slow you down in your way of seeing or experiencing love ?

@aesnams  Everyone should have the freedom to love in their own way, without necessarily feeling constrained by social rules or external judgments. Because deep down, love is a complex and personal emotion, and wanting to normalize it is in some way to take away its diversity and richness.