This is a quick message to my fellow wattpad readers.
We often see toxic and abusive relationships being glorafied on this app.
Rape, mental illness, abusive homes, abusive relationships, addiction....we all see them on here and they are often seen as 'love'.
If you are in a relationship where your partner is:
1. Overly controlling, (doesn't let you: go out, dress how you want, speak or be friends with other guys, chooses your friends, checks your phone all the time etc)
2. Overly possessive(you aren't allowed to have any interactions with opposite sex, gets extremely jeleous...)
3. Has anger issues and is not actively trying to better it (yells at you for little things, calls you names, physically abuses you, breaks stuff...)
4. Sexually abuses you (touches you without your consent or forces you to do things you don't want, even if they are your partner, they have no right to do anything without your permission)
5. Physically abuses you (slaps you, punches you, throws stuff...)
6. Makes you feel unwanted/bad about yourself
It is abuse. If its only something they don't realize its affecting you, like anger issues or making you feel bad about yourself, talk to them and explain how you feel. If after that they don't actively start/try to change leave them. Nothing is more important than your mental and physical health.
Remember, abuse is not only physical it can be mental as well.
If they hit you once, leave them for good, even if they say its never gonna happen again. Its a lie, it WILL happen again.
Same with cheating
Love ya'all and stay safe