aliceongjy

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aliceongjy

Guys, need some help here! so i have a friend. idk if it's considered a friend. i feel like i've been psychologically manipulated by her. That friend of mine have some mental health issue. i tried my best to cooperate and help her to get better. but she dosent know that she's also hurting me in some ways. and whenever i tell her about this, she plays the victim "what am i to you then?" 
          "you're blaming me now huh?"
          "ha guess im useless after all"
          how do i cut her off completely without hurting her? She blocked me several times and 'pulled'be back to her several times now. she's making me feel guilty in everything, every decision i make that dosent fufill her,she'll throw a tantrum. help

aliceongjy

thanks guys, in the end i decided to forgive her. i don't want it to be the thing that hurts me. but i gave her a warning, if she did it again, i'm not going to contact her any further.
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RoseTheWriter293

I also had a friend like this back in 8th grade. It came to the point that being nice wasn’t going to cut it and I honestly had to push back. My “friend” knew what she was doing to me and it became so bad that her mom had to move her to a different school because she was threatening to hurt me. 
            Being straight up with her will be the best thing you can do. Have an someone there to be the mediator too if you don’t feel comfortable talking with just the two of you. 
            
            Idk if this helped you or not. I wish you the best of luck.
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stellardeity

@aliceongjy also, do you still think of her as a friend?
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aliceongjy

i'm really really upset right now. i don't see myself in the future. what should i do? I'm panicking. dark thoughts. im scared sorry. i want someone to talk to me right now...

aliceongjy

thanks for the encouragement, because i was really scared. i have to take my final most important exam to go to college or i'll be seen as a disappointment to my family. i'm trying. im still trying. but  last few years something happened, i was having a hard time coping and got panic attacks. that was me having a panic attack. sorry
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Lazy-mad-succubi

@aliceongjy start making a future even if you dont see one.Make one that is yours and one that you can be proud of.Don't panic love,just remember that you are love and very much valued even when you dont think so,you are.Im here for ya,Kay?
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