I learned a lot this year already. Most important of all: do not judge someone for their feelings, never tell them they’re feeling wrong, they can not feel this way. Do not, ever.
Got sexual abused and the person who did told me “no. That’s not what you’re feeling. I can’t remember the situation but I’m sure it wasn’t like that. I would never do something you didn’t say yes to” guess what he did anyways.