annurukh

Reading about contract marriage on here sometimes left me wondering about how easy it really seems to get married and divorced!!!
          	
          	My question however, is that really happens in reality in other countries without any complications???? Coz in my country, divorce happens more in love marriage than arrange marriage because in arrange marriage no matter what or how many problems happens or even the girl isn't happy, she endure everything and don't ask divorce...
          	
          	And if a girl is divorced (it doesn't even matter who is at fault or what complications were), her full family will be condemned and there would be no respect left. Community will start treating them like an outcast. More impact will be on unmarried girls left in family as no one would like have the bride who's sister is a divorcee. According to their mentality, if one girl is divorced, then it is high chance all other girls in relation will follow the same path of divorce. 
          	
          	There are girls who don't have any moral support because if she even suffering in marriage and is unhappy, her parents will always advise her to endure that wrongdoings just for the sake of the family's pride, it's positive reputation and for the left girls future in family. They only think about having a spotless record no matter if the girl is dying slowly from inside and becoming like a robot!!
          	
          	So these girls are alone in full family because they have no one to share their pains. They only hide everything behind their behaviour and smile!l and ultimately they start living a life to create  allusion and it's a fake happiness show to the community!!!

iluvdaisychain

I live in NZ and it is not a big deal to get divorced over here. I think in most Western countries it is the same - not that big of a deal. Getting married too, is easy - but I would say that I feel like less importance is placed on married now, than their used to be, and that is a shame. 
          	  
          	  However, if two people are unhappy in the marriage, either man or woman can file for divorce with no repercussions from society. 
          	  I think the only exception in NZ would be if your family holds certain views towards marriage, or follows particular religious views. And then you would have to deal with your familial repercussions, but in terms of the wider society, no one really cares if you have been divorce before.
          	  
          	  I hope that helps :)
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annurukh

Reading about contract marriage on here sometimes left me wondering about how easy it really seems to get married and divorced!!!
          
          My question however, is that really happens in reality in other countries without any complications???? Coz in my country, divorce happens more in love marriage than arrange marriage because in arrange marriage no matter what or how many problems happens or even the girl isn't happy, she endure everything and don't ask divorce...
          
          And if a girl is divorced (it doesn't even matter who is at fault or what complications were), her full family will be condemned and there would be no respect left. Community will start treating them like an outcast. More impact will be on unmarried girls left in family as no one would like have the bride who's sister is a divorcee. According to their mentality, if one girl is divorced, then it is high chance all other girls in relation will follow the same path of divorce. 
          
          There are girls who don't have any moral support because if she even suffering in marriage and is unhappy, her parents will always advise her to endure that wrongdoings just for the sake of the family's pride, it's positive reputation and for the left girls future in family. They only think about having a spotless record no matter if the girl is dying slowly from inside and becoming like a robot!!
          
          So these girls are alone in full family because they have no one to share their pains. They only hide everything behind their behaviour and smile!l and ultimately they start living a life to create  allusion and it's a fake happiness show to the community!!!

iluvdaisychain

I live in NZ and it is not a big deal to get divorced over here. I think in most Western countries it is the same - not that big of a deal. Getting married too, is easy - but I would say that I feel like less importance is placed on married now, than their used to be, and that is a shame. 
            
            However, if two people are unhappy in the marriage, either man or woman can file for divorce with no repercussions from society. 
            I think the only exception in NZ would be if your family holds certain views towards marriage, or follows particular religious views. And then you would have to deal with your familial repercussions, but in terms of the wider society, no one really cares if you have been divorce before.
            
            I hope that helps :)
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annurukh

I wrote a heartfelt message about my life struggle and the words limit didn't gave permission to post!!! I want someone who can listen to me, my pain, fears because I am lonely!! I have big family. Many people to claim that they are my well wishers but no one is really for me. I have husband and three children, you can see in my bio but still I feel all alone in this world. Life have taught me only only one thing.. FATE IS A CRUEL BITCH'!!!

dreamerr033

@annurukh How do you feel truly alone? Allah is always with you. The only fate in which you live is the one the Lord has designed. His tests of seemingly cruelty are acts of purification upon your soul.
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annurukh

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