I don’t think this take is controversial at all, honestly. I feel like Mike is at real risk of growing up to either become like his father or live a deeply unhappy life because of him. One of Mike’s biggest, quietest fears has always been ending up emotionally stuck, disconnected, and unfulfilled the way his dad is, and so much of his identity gets wrapped up in El and the future he imagines with her. If he loses El—his first love, his emotional anchor—it’s not just heartbreak, it’s the loss of the life he thought would save him from that fate. On top of that, Mike carries an enormous amount of trauma that often goes unacknowledged: losing Will, believing El died, living in constant fear of losing everyone he loves, and feeling powerless through it all. Trauma like that doesn’t just disappear, and without space to heal, it can easily turn into bitterness, emotional withdrawal, or quiet misery. The tragedy is that Mike knows what he doesn’t want to become, which makes the possibility even sadder. Whether he repeats the cycle or breaks free from it really depends on whether he’s given the chance to heal and build a future that isn’t defined solely by loss.