Don’t you hate when people call Lucius Malfoy abusive? He had so much respect for Narcissa and never pressured her into becoming a Death Eater. He ran through the Battle of Hogwarts, a prime target, wandless just so he could find his son. He specifically asked Lord Voldemort himself if he could go into the battle and find his son. Lucius was not abusive. He was a good and loving father, if a little too strict at times.
Also, I saw a headcanon that compared Vernon Dudley to Lucius and I got really mad. They may both have been a*holes but Lucius never ABUSED A CHILD BECAUSE HE HATED THEIR PARENTS! I get comparing Draco and Dudley But LUCIUS WAS NOT ABUSIVE!
And there is evidence to prove that Lucius respected and loved Narcissa. Remember in the prologue of Deathly Hallows. Lucius literally waits until Narcissa gives him permission before giving up his wand to THE DARK LORD HIMSELF!
Lucius May have been a pressuring father, but he loved his son nonetheless and never treated his wife with anything but respect.