Hi, I know may be no one will see this, but I will be happy even if one does.
We often read arranged marriage au in the fiction. Even I'm obsessed with arranged marriage concepts. But please limit that to only fiction. Not all marriage (regardless of arrangement or love) will be a success. I saw a friend of mine who is a junior dreaming about how she was gonna have an arranged marriage and she even said that she wouldn't mind much if her husband turn out to be a control freak. (She reads wattapd, btw). I know concepts like dark romance or angst aren't meant for everyone. That is the reason why authors put the TW.
Please restrain yourself from reading such concepts if you are underage or can't take it.
A good friend of mine was married, abused, and even forced to have kids, but her maternal family withdrew all their responsibilities just because she wasn't their responsibility now.
Do not let these take a toll on your mind. Be mature. Know what is right and wrong. Do not listen to anyone else if you think their decisions aren't right (ofc there are some exceptions). Please lead your life for yourself.
Thank you. I just wanted to rant out my mind since everyone seemed dumb. "Your parents know better" - no, sometimes they don't.