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Uhm guys, just in case no one ever told you, no means no. It does not matter if it's sexual or platonic. If someone says no, back the fuck off. It does not matter if the 'no' is to your touch or to s3x, but please, for the love of God, respect the 'no'. And if someone doesn't respect your no, babe, I am sorry, but that is harassment. You did nothing wrong. Nothing. It took me way too long to understand this, and I wish it hadn't.