I don't know with each day I feel like losing myself. It's been a while since I messaged my friends. Its not like they are ignoring me or don't care about me, they do. But with the stuffs going on I am not able to talk to them freely as I use to. My family keeps tab on me and definitely check the texts and conversation that I have, I hate it and this feels like a cage. I don't know what to do but if any parent is here reading this.
Please let your child have privacy, if you don't let them have their own private time and things, they will hate you and will want to walk away. Its bound to happen.
From a child's perspective, We want to be the one to tell you stuffs if its bad or good. We don't want you to snoop around and sniff through our stuffs. It makes us extremely uncomfortable and breaks our trust. This is the same in any relationship , be it a boyfriend- girlfriend, bro- sis or bestfriends
please do not break one's trust like this
I hope it gives a gentle reminder of how precious the relationship is to you and how much you value the person.