❝almost every woman i have ever met has a secret belief that she is just on the edge of madness, that there is some deep, crazy part within her, that she must be on guard constantly against 'losing control' - of her temper, of her appetite, of her sexuality, of her feelings, of her ambitions, of her secret fantasies, of her mind. ❞ Elana Dykewomon, "Notes for a Magazine"