astraykidsaddict

My cousin accidentally outed me as bi to my homophobic friends, and now I’m panicking. They’re already acting distant and avoiding physical contact. I’m terrified my parents will find out next. What do I do?

HannieMinnieluv

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@astraykidsaddict okay so maybe tell your parents "so i like girls... BUT theres a chance i might marry a guy... Im bi that doesnt change anything about me im still ur daughter (im guessing) being bi won't change me, and you never know i might fall for some guy and get married and pro-create, or i may adopt with my wife" OR dont take my advice cuz im straight as shit and kinda an idiot so just listen to ur guts you never know they might be more accepting cuz your their child.
          	  
          	  Im so nice cuz i try not to be like the other people in my life... Im nice so im not like the people who have hurt me not physicaly but emotionally (and dont be jealous of people who know me most of them are mf)
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HannieMinnieluv

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@astraykidsaddict well if shes bi to than shes just an asshole POS and ur just gonna have to be a bitch for one day
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astraykidsaddict

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@HannieMinneluv OK so they used to be very sexually open, then suddenly after two months they became the most homophobic people ever like tf. I have been friends with them for years and suddenly this shit. Also I'm very anti social due to anxiety(which my parents think is a fuckin phase) and I'm shit at texting others because I genuinely need to see their reaction on what I say so I don't fuck myself up. Also my parents would HATE me, I'd ve a fuckin outcast. Gay lady in the street, died hair, anything close to goth aesthetic, DISGUSTING according to them. I clean, I cook, straight A's, I swear I have like four gray hairs(metaphorical) named Stress, Anxiety, Trauma, and Denial. I don't think they'd kick me out but I know damn well life will be more hellish than it already is. Also bitch ily why tf are you so nice I'm jealous of whoever knows you
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astraykidsaddict

My cousin accidentally outed me as bi to my homophobic friends, and now I’m panicking. They’re already acting distant and avoiding physical contact. I’m terrified my parents will find out next. What do I do?

HannieMinnieluv

this message may be offensive 
@astraykidsaddict okay so maybe tell your parents "so i like girls... BUT theres a chance i might marry a guy... Im bi that doesnt change anything about me im still ur daughter (im guessing) being bi won't change me, and you never know i might fall for some guy and get married and pro-create, or i may adopt with my wife" OR dont take my advice cuz im straight as shit and kinda an idiot so just listen to ur guts you never know they might be more accepting cuz your their child.
            
            Im so nice cuz i try not to be like the other people in my life... Im nice so im not like the people who have hurt me not physicaly but emotionally (and dont be jealous of people who know me most of them are mf)
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HannieMinnieluv

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@astraykidsaddict well if shes bi to than shes just an asshole POS and ur just gonna have to be a bitch for one day
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astraykidsaddict

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@HannieMinneluv OK so they used to be very sexually open, then suddenly after two months they became the most homophobic people ever like tf. I have been friends with them for years and suddenly this shit. Also I'm very anti social due to anxiety(which my parents think is a fuckin phase) and I'm shit at texting others because I genuinely need to see their reaction on what I say so I don't fuck myself up. Also my parents would HATE me, I'd ve a fuckin outcast. Gay lady in the street, died hair, anything close to goth aesthetic, DISGUSTING according to them. I clean, I cook, straight A's, I swear I have like four gray hairs(metaphorical) named Stress, Anxiety, Trauma, and Denial. I don't think they'd kick me out but I know damn well life will be more hellish than it already is. Also bitch ily why tf are you so nice I'm jealous of whoever knows you
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astraykidsaddict

Honestly, today was my birthday, and it really opened my eyes. Despite having a group of friends who act like they’re "supportive," it's clear they don’t actually care about what I have to say. Out of everyone, only one person even acknowledged my birthday; the rest just ignored it and kept talking about their own lives.
          
          I don’t need to be the center of attention or get showered with wishes, but it would be nice to feel like I actually matter to my friend group. It’s painful to realize how toxic and fake this dynamic is. They don't acknowledge me or even bother to invite me when they hang out.
          
          The worst part is feeling trapped—I feel like I can’t leave for a new circle because they’re manipulative and keep tabs on everyone I talk to. Even the one person who did say "happy birthday" isn't someone I can truly trust or be myself around, because they’d just judge me or use slurs if I said anything that wasn't "straight."
          
          I’m sorry for the vent, but I just really needed to get that out.

astraykidsaddict

@astraykidsaddict Thanks guys
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HannieMinnieluv

@astraykidsaddict happt belated pooks
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hrtz4sevngz

@astraykidsaddict Happy belated birthday♡♡♡ I'm sorry your birthday turned out this way.I hope you find your people..the ones who make you feel valued and loved for who you are. Take care.
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HannieMinnieluv

I relate to the boring life part in ur about btw ur not alone

HannieMinnieluv

@astraykidsaddict no worries! I understand
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astraykidsaddict

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@HannieMinneluv Thank you also sorry I replied so fucking late
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