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I cannot believe I have to say this, tiktok has ruined the view of lesbians and books, Lesbians cannot be a man or identity as one with their pronouns. Stop this ‘new age’ bullshit. You cannot be bi and a lesbian, that’s not how that works. If you are male, use they/them, or he/him you are not a lesbian. YOU MUST BE BORN OR IDENTIFY AS A WOMAN TO BE ONE!!!
Also, why are straight women STILL fetishizing gay men especially THE toxic relationships in media or books. and why are they still bashing lesbians when they enter a lesbian bar and get flirted with, no one wants you in their safe space made just for us. Take your straight friends, boyfriend, and leave.
Dark romance should not be an excuse to romanticize r*pe or p*dophilia of any kind. That’s disgusting. Enemies to lovers should not involve killing a family member of the character then forcing them to have s*x while threatening to r*pe the character otherwise or successfully drugging them to SA them. That’s toxic as hell and booktokers are using that to excuse men abusing women. You can have dark romance and the enemies to lovers trope without abusing women, animals, children, or having r*pe involved.
Maybe tiktok being banned is for the best.