@baihaoxue Dear author. I’m a little late at knowing about your situation with your husband and very sad to know that this is happening to you. I’ve always believed that being married means being equal with one’s spouse and being happy with each other’s accomplishments. However, I know that in different parts of the world, this may look different based on religion, customs or belief system. In this era, it is very sad to know that this type of relationship still occurs esp to women and the way they’re treated by society. I can only advice that you have a good talk with your husband and maybe try to persuade him about the pros and cons of you going back to work. If he doesn’t agree totally, maybe you guys can come up with a compromise that will make each of you happy. If not, I would seek counsel outside of marriage if that is available. Being a woman is hard but I’m hoping that we’ve come a long way from being always the subservient one who caters totally to our husband’s likes and dislikes into an equal partner whose likes and dislikes also matter. Marriage is a partnership or supposed to be. Whatever changes occur in the marriage should always be discussed by both and hopefully arrive in a conclusion that favors both partners amicably. I pray you and your spouse will try to understand each other and that your problem will be resolved. Good luck!
