small rules! 
don't be cringe, , i am not comfortable doing: 
transinnit , blind/deaf/neurodivergent au, pet names, /p cuddles/kisses, slurs/hatecrimes & sexual content 

for transinnit, i am not trans and i don't want to butcher the trans experience as a cis girl. i think there are a great amount  of trans writers that would be better for the job than me. 

same goes for blindinnit/deafinnit/neurodivergent. bc i am not any of these things (besides neurodivergent), i would definitely butcher and somehow end up doing some sort of bad stereotype bc I'm not these things. 

i might add to this list or not but please don't be upset w me <3