blackholeguy

A boy approached me and I rejected him. Am I wrong for doing that? Like he was younger than me (not that it's a problem, I just wasn't comfortable) and we just don't have the same views. 

blackholeguy

I don't feel any ounce of attraction for him, or anyone as a matter of fact rn. I feel like I'm just not yet ready for dating. 
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blackholeguy

@blackholeguy Thanks(*๓´╰╯`๓)♡ 
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ObscurityistheAim

And if you guys don't have same views maybe you wouldn't even be able to remain friends after that better gently reject them than be the jerk scum ex 
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blackholeguy

A boy approached me and I rejected him. Am I wrong for doing that? Like he was younger than me (not that it's a problem, I just wasn't comfortable) and we just don't have the same views. 

blackholeguy

I don't feel any ounce of attraction for him, or anyone as a matter of fact rn. I feel like I'm just not yet ready for dating. 
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blackholeguy

@blackholeguy Thanks(*๓´╰╯`๓)♡ 
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ObscurityistheAim

And if you guys don't have same views maybe you wouldn't even be able to remain friends after that better gently reject them than be the jerk scum ex 
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Hedgehogladdie429

Love the profile picture 

Hedgehogladdie429

Aw thank you! I had fun writing it. I just like writing stories in general that make you feel emotionally connected to it
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blackholeguy

@Hedgehogladdie429 Thanks(*^ω^*) I loved your book btw. It served realness and angst and everything. One of the few books I've read to the end. Best fanfic 10/10
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blackholeguy

So it's me and I really don't know what to do. I decided to message an old friend I was really close with. We've just moved and since she lives close I thought maybe I could meet up with her but now I don't know what to say. So what do I say? If you can help me, please do so ̄へ ̄

blackholeguy

@blackholeguy thank you so much!!!
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ObscurityistheAim

@blackholeguy You can just start a conversation with, ' hi, how have you been i just moved to your place what's there to do in the town ? And talk about the same interests you have or a topic whivh is popular and lighthearted like a good new song or movie or something. Just start a conversation first and everything will be fine 
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blackholeguy

The way I've already started Ramadhan by breaking the first day of fasting is just urgh!

blackholeguy

@blackholeguy yup. I had not taken suhoor so I felt so light headed and decided to eat. After all, I'll just pay it back after Ramadan ends
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LexusLevough

@blackholeguy  not intentionally right?
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blackholeguy

Hey, so I have a question to ask and please answer if you can. Have you ever felt insecure about how you look? Not in terms of beauty but gender. I've been told that I sound like a girl, I look lile a girl and that really makes me feel bad. And if you did, how did you deal with it?

ikigaaii

@blackholeguy actually yes. i always thought my broad shoulders made me look "manly", that my laugh and voice weren't "ladylike", that the way I walked and acted wasn't womanly enough. but with time, even though I'm not the most confident person yet, I've learned to embrace these things about myself. I feel better about my body and no longer care about how "boyish" I may look. it's hard at first but it's important to not let other's opinions get to you, bc they don't know crap about you. who cares what they tell you!! you know yourself best.
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LexusLevough

@blackholeguy just be yourself and feel proud of who you are. you did not make yourself god did. and who said feminity is a bad thing?
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LexusLevough

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people always said i look and sound and even act like a boy.
            at first i always felt inferior. but then i started to completely disregard and told people to fuck off and now im great.
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