@blade_horror1230 well when i have family issues i like to think that everything happens for a reason and every issue makes you stronger and makes you understand how to handle it in the future. For example if you have anxiety attacks. When you have your first anxiety attack you don't know how to handle it and you don't understand it, when you have your second anxiety attack you still don't know how to handle it but you understand it, when you have your third anxiety attack, you know what is happening and you kinda know how to handle it and they go on and on till you understand, know what's happening and know how to handle them. That's just an example but i think like that with every issue that i have
P.S. i am sorry for replying so late but i hope that this helps you