books_joonie

hi everyone :) i haven’t been active on here for so long, so i don’t really expect a reply. but just in case, how is everyone? i wanted to check in, miss y’all :) and love y’all always.

Seokjin_Biased_

@books_joonie  Np, and yea ik. As someone who needs to study a lot again currently, I feel u :') And I'm the same, struggling socially etc. But yea we gotta do what we can like u said
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books_joonie

@Seokjin_Biased_ Hiiii, sorry for the even later reply. I feel you with the work, it all piles up so quickly in uni. Studying is just like the bane of my existence atp. And yeah I'm pretty introverted, so I feel like I struggle socially too because of that. We just gotta do our best yk.
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Seokjin_Biased_

@books_joonie Lol felt, I'm rarely on here anymore unless I decide to check for messages. As you can see, my reply to yours is a bit late xD
          	  I get you. Atm I'm fine since this semester pretty much just ended for me. But hmm... well, in between I allow myself breaks. I try to study as much as I can, ofc, and let that also be (almost) the first thing I do in the day, so it's easier to get into it. I knew for many years, ofc, that studying would help with the stressed out feelings since I'd get the work done and the "pile" of work would decrease. But only since I got into uni did I really... "get" that knowledge in a way that it actually made me act, iykwim.
          	  So, basically, I try to get through the pile of work relatively soon. But I also take breaks to do other things I wanna do. Sometimes it can also happen that I may have not studied at all yet in a day, or similar, and I can't concentrate on it bc I keep thinking about something else I wanna do. Then I allow myself to do that and "push off" studying even further, instead of feeling guilty, because I know I wouldn't get a lot into my head anyway from lack of concentration.
          	  But if I do wanna get myself to be more concentrated on studies in general, I tell myself, "I want to do this, I like this. This is interesting and I want to know more about it." If you study what you want to study, that won't be a lie and it'll get you back on track.
          	  
          	  Generally, I think it's about finding your own balance. Even if that's different from how other people learn, it doesn't matter bc this is about you.
          	  
          	  And I try my best to talk about it. I tend to close off a lot so it's often a challenge, but yeah I try to open up at least a bit about my stress to trusted people, since that helps me personally.
          	  
          	  Hbu?
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books_joonie

hi everyone :) i haven’t been active on here for so long, so i don’t really expect a reply. but just in case, how is everyone? i wanted to check in, miss y’all :) and love y’all always.

Seokjin_Biased_

@books_joonie  Np, and yea ik. As someone who needs to study a lot again currently, I feel u :') And I'm the same, struggling socially etc. But yea we gotta do what we can like u said
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books_joonie

@Seokjin_Biased_ Hiiii, sorry for the even later reply. I feel you with the work, it all piles up so quickly in uni. Studying is just like the bane of my existence atp. And yeah I'm pretty introverted, so I feel like I struggle socially too because of that. We just gotta do our best yk.
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Seokjin_Biased_

@books_joonie Lol felt, I'm rarely on here anymore unless I decide to check for messages. As you can see, my reply to yours is a bit late xD
            I get you. Atm I'm fine since this semester pretty much just ended for me. But hmm... well, in between I allow myself breaks. I try to study as much as I can, ofc, and let that also be (almost) the first thing I do in the day, so it's easier to get into it. I knew for many years, ofc, that studying would help with the stressed out feelings since I'd get the work done and the "pile" of work would decrease. But only since I got into uni did I really... "get" that knowledge in a way that it actually made me act, iykwim.
            So, basically, I try to get through the pile of work relatively soon. But I also take breaks to do other things I wanna do. Sometimes it can also happen that I may have not studied at all yet in a day, or similar, and I can't concentrate on it bc I keep thinking about something else I wanna do. Then I allow myself to do that and "push off" studying even further, instead of feeling guilty, because I know I wouldn't get a lot into my head anyway from lack of concentration.
            But if I do wanna get myself to be more concentrated on studies in general, I tell myself, "I want to do this, I like this. This is interesting and I want to know more about it." If you study what you want to study, that won't be a lie and it'll get you back on track.
            
            Generally, I think it's about finding your own balance. Even if that's different from how other people learn, it doesn't matter bc this is about you.
            
            And I try my best to talk about it. I tend to close off a lot so it's often a challenge, but yeah I try to open up at least a bit about my stress to trusted people, since that helps me personally.
            
            Hbu?
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