I think we’ve all had our moments when the facade of LT was a bit tarnished. And why not, they’re only human and not the perfect aliens too many fans looked at them as being. I never counted myself among that group though. None of us are perfect aliens.
I Completely feel your feelings are valid. In fact, for me, there were times in 2020 when I didn’t think I could finish or continue with Uncaging Bunny because of things about themselves they were revealing. I am especially appreciative of you saying that not ALL the fans are bad. Not all of their fans are toxic. Personally, those who have too much centered their lives around LT and having unrealistic expectations from them will suffer the most and who will become more toxic and territorial, to their personal detriment, IMO. THAT is not healthy for anyone.
I DO consider myself a fan of their’s, no doubt. I personally continue to admire their immense talent. I appreciate a LOT of things about them, but my fandom of them is one I feel is in a healthy range where I will never allow it to overshadow the importance of my own life. LT are an inspiration, no doubt, with respect to their resilience, their courage, love of family, and each other, their perseverance, and other things. I’d initially planned to be on that cruise but other things prevailed. Maybe next time. I hope to attend another one of their workshops, hope to see you guys there, and I will always wish them the best. :-D