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Good news, in the famous words of Chris Martin “I’m coming home again”
          	
          	
          	I’m going back to Canada on the 14th September

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I’ve been in Mexico for 2 months now. Kinda missing Canada rn, lots of luxuries I wished I had rn. Ironically, Monterrey is making me miss the Miway and TTC. Not to mention my friends. I gotta find some cigars cause I’m tired of smoking cigarettes as a substitute (yes I smoke, but I don’t inhale the smoke, I try to keep my lungs healthy, if you do smoke be the legal age in your country). The heat is amazing tho, I’ve missed +30 degree weather.

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If there’s one thing I hate about Christian dating is the mishonesty. I phrased it like that because although people are being honest, that honesty is misplaced. You’re not in a season of singleness if you’ve been single your whole life, season implies change, meaning you were dating at some point. Truth is that sometimes God plans for you to be single your whole life. And that’s ok, why? Cause God deemed it so, he has a plan, a reason for you. So please don’t go around saying “a season of singleness,” you might as well brag that you are dating/married. Tell the truth, because saying this, not just as individuals but as a collective, makes the dating scene look like an entire circle jerk (sorry that I’m using profanity but I do want this to be honest, I’m not mincing words). You want give out real advice? Here’s one, pray. But not for a wife/husband, pray for God to continue His plan for you, to have him work within you. Because that’s all that God wants, praying for a spouse probably the most selfish thing one could pray for. Ask God to reveal His plan to you and if He answers with you being single, that’s ok. God still has plenty planned in your life. I just ask that be honest with ourselves, because is the advice Godly or is it coming from you? Because if it comes from you, then it’s based on your experience. We’re not the same people, God didn’t make us that way. If He did, only Adam would exist in this world. You’re honest but only because you’re giving your experience. That experience is biased. So to anyone struggling with dating as a Christian, trust in Jesus above all. You’re time will come when God says yes or no to you being married.