@cagedmysoul
Thinking about one of the reasons why getting your first period was traumatic cuz of grown ups telling you you're suddenly a woman at a young age (⊙‿◎) anyway I made a chapter about it before I go to sleep and I think EVERYONE should read it especially if you're going to be a parent one day...
It's my birthdayyy ✧｡٩(ˊᗜˋ )و✧*｡
I think one of the most horrible things a woman could do is telling another woman that she's "disgusting" all because she doesn't shave, doesn't wear makeup, doesn't wear feminine clothes or anything that has been forced by patriarchal standards.
Your internalized misogyny isn't cute. Not shaving or not doing makeup should be the standard. Body hair is supposed to protect us. Makeup is nothing but a patriarchal scam that feeds into women's insecurity.
People are free to do as they please but the moment you shame someone for their appearance just because it doesn’t fit within patriarchal standards is wrong. Misogyny doesn’t always come in the form of an evil man. It may sometimes come in the form of a comment from a female family member or friend. There are women that uphold the patriarchy.
And no I'm not telling anyone to stop doing their makeup or shave. I'm saying it doesn't make it a feminist choice.
You know what apology I want?
Something that seems like you aren't excusing what you did, doesn't try too hard to explain it, and actually owns up that you're in the wrong. It just feels like you act you have never done anything wrong and that's a problem
I really don't believe you're that busy everyday. I know a damn well for those two weeks you obviously had a fucking time
IDGAFFF fuck you you've hurt me too much. And no don't give me a fucking explantion how life is difficult or whatever, fuck off, this time OWN IT UP
It's like last year again, except you weren't here at all
If you truly love me like you said you do, you would have fucking tried hard enough
I do not care I'm talking about it in public, no one is going to care. I'm saying this out loud for you to see since your ass can't make itself go to chats for one fucking night. I'm extremely hurt by it, I will talk about it MANY TIMES how it hurts. I have the right to be
1 out of 365 days you couldn't show up for an anniversary. For one day you couldn't prioritize me. Out of all days, it has to be the one that was important to me. I'm not accepting any apology, and do not give me any reason; own up to your own fault. I honestly hope you feel guilty over it. That shit fucking hurt
All I wanted was to spend it with you, but I feel like it was too much to ask for something simple
Aren't anniversaries supposed to be celebrated together not one person waiting for the other person to come all day long
Women's health/reproductive rights should be researched more. Send tweet.
There's no cure for endometriosis btw (treatable yes, but no cure). I could say the same thing with other women's health issues
I hate love