I’m sorry for your loss. Losing someone is a hardship no one would ever want to go through but especially losing a brother. I hope you and your family find peace and can learn to live your life still remembering the legacy and love your brother left for you all. What I want to say is although you are obviously still grieving and going through something that is very painful, I don’t think you should be doing this to that user. I don’t even know her and I don’t know you either. So I’m not biased. I think by doing this you’re not going anywhere. These feelings that you have bottled up, the anger that has been stored ever since your brother’s death shouldn’t be let out this way. I don’t know if you believe in God, but I’m Muslim, and in my faith, we believe that everything happens according to God's will. If your brother’s time came during that trip, then it was written to happen, no matter how heartbreaking that is. That girl didn’t cause it — she couldn’t have known what would happen, and neither could he. Sometimes, we just can’t control fate. I’m sorry that you’re unable to make more memories with your brother. What I want to ask you is this: do you think your brother would want to see you in pain and spreading hate to someone else? Would he want you to carry this burden forever? I don’t think so. I’m sure he’d want you to eventually find peace, to smile again, and to live a life he’d be proud of. And of course I don’t know your brother but I’m sure he’d want you to be happy one day. I don’t know you but I pray that you’ll be happy one day too. I’m not saying this to attack you but to hopefully reach you inshallah. I genuinely hope you find comfort and healing. I may not know you, but I’ll still pray for your peace and happiness.
