most things happen not because people want it, most of the times it happens because the people don't want it. I guess it just mean the more you yearn for something, the harder the path you will take but the more you despise something the easier path will appear. It's a choice that oneself can only decide. Wether you work hard for something you want or take the easier path and put up with it. Its always the opposite that will happen. Just like when one wants to die yet they're still living a long life and on the other hand, one who want to live the longest always has the earliest goodbyes.