guys I just want to take a moment to share an educational moment with you all from someone who has experienced this situation.
If your friend or someone you knows says they want to lose weight or they're feeling depressed and want to self harm NEVER say "if you do, I will too" because it will make hem close up. They'll stop telling you things and they won't be open any longer. So please, don't say "if you do I will too" if you're trying to comfort someone struggling, it will more than likely make things worse.