You guys wanna hear a funny story lol…
So I was into this guy I worked with right (in college so this was a while ago) and he was into me. We saw each other every day, he wanted to ask me out but he was shy (always been super reserved). Well we spoke outside of work every day too.
Eventually I went out with some girl friends who I worked with and one of them pointed out how he was into me. And another girl was like “oh he’s cute” when we showed her a pic. She didn’t see him every day, diff department.
Fast forward like a month later (I didn’t realize at the time but I do now)… she changed her entire appearance to look like me. Dyed her hair to look like mine (at the time I complemented her hair, thought the change looked good lol). And I mean down to nail color lol. If I had white coffin shaped nails, she’d go get hers done the next day. She started wearing glasses (over her contacts) regularly. I just never realized it.
Well then she started hanging around him a lot more. To be fair, I wasn’t like looking for a relationship, had just gotten out of a toxic one, so like I wasn’t jumping at the bit to be with this guy. She didn’t have like any competition lol.
Well anyway, as soon as I left my college town and I was “out of the picture” so to speak, she dyed her hair back to normal, went back to wearing contacts over glasses, etc.
Later I one of my past friends at that job confirmed she did everything to be more like me to make herself desirable by him.
Anyway, they’re engaged now, just saw on Instagram & thought it was funny, happy for them, but like PSA if you feel you have to change for a man to get him to notice / desire you… babe, move on, he’s not the one!!!
