I grew up in the Monterey Bay area of California. I came out late in life after being married for 17 years. I have two boys ages 22 and 15  both of whom live out of state. I will be 42  as of July 2012 but my friends say i don't look my age.

 I love to  laugh, read, music of all different genres, dancing, walking , clumsy as hell on a bike though, and just hanging out with friends and family. 

 I would love to write my coming out story some day, how my marriage ended and the circumstances of how I met my girlfriend.