i am still convinced that we're long-lost twins separated at birth, but we've had this discussion several times already, so i will drop it. anyways!! can relate!! i would spend most of my money on clothes, food or coffee whenever i felt like it or got the chance to feel like it, and my mom would get so annoyed. IT'S MY MONEY!!! i get that she would want me to save it or maybe invest it, so it could grow, but let me splurge every now and then. Goodness!!