cynic_al

That feeling when you're happy again but you're not sure how long it's going to last so you're afraid to be happy again <<<

cynic_al

Can I ask for some advice if possible?
          I've been friends with this one person for roughly a month now. We didn't have any classes together, but we would still talk pretty heartily online. It got to the point where we'd be talking about several different things within the same walls (sometimes battlements) of texts on both ends, so we'd have to block off time to respond to each other if we weren't active at the same time. 
          Now that it's summer and we've both been out of school, we've both got our own things going on. They're super busy with their job and I've got my own stuff going on, so we're not able to talk as much. Which I completely understand, but then out of the blue, they ghosted me. It's been more than a week and like I said, they're super busy with their job so they're not on their phone as much, and it does take a hot minute to reply. Finding a block of time to reply to each other isn't the easiest thing, especially on their end. Still though. I'm worried that they don't want to talk or be friends anymore, which hurts more than I'd like to admit. Should I reach out and check in every now and then or just leave me them be?

cynic_al

@Lalotfkid @newromantics_23 thanks for this advice, I know it's gonna be hard to move on though :(
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newromantics_23

@cynic_al you shouldn’t reach out too much because if they don’t value keeping up the relationship either there’s no point. Ik it hurts but it’s better than lowering your own worth cuz you’re compensating for them
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Lalotfkid

@cynic_al u should probablly not go online for at lest 2 months and cheack if they tried to contact u
            *idk tbh cuz your story isooo long*
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cynic_al

You ever music music so much that it doesn't music anymore

cynic_al

@newromantics_23 I should do that, I've been over listening to Sabaton lately but I also saved a bunch of Radiohead albums to my library sooooo
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newromantics_23

@cynic_al just gotta mix it up real good then lol I’ve currently overlistened to Taylor swift but I’m returning to my 2023-2024 music and it’s lowk so nostalgic and amazing so I’m fine. Also when u no over listen and then come back after two weeks it hits sm better
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cynic_al

@newromantics_23 but also I need music to get through the day so I end up stuck T_T
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