Guys aren't inherently jerks. A couple years ago I asked a friend to drive me home around midnight told him of he couldn't I'd take an Uber. He told me "absolutely not, your not getting in a car with a stranger at midnight I'll drive you. The same friend told one of our other friends "move you're ass Vix gets the front seat."
Same night I said my purse was hurting my shoulder and a different one of my friends held it for me.
A couple months ago. I was sparring in my martial arts class and heard one of my coworkers tell the guy j was sparing with jokingly, "you hurt her me and D are gonna beat you up" they way he said it made it clear thag he and out coworker D had spoken about this before.
While slow sparing he had gotten hurt and stepped off. A few minutes later one of the teenagers hit me way to hard with a spin kick and he got real serious and said "yo chill out, you hit her that hard again I'm putting my gear back on."
Men aren't inherently bad people, so what the hell is going on recently.