Hey, I see you’re inquiring on enlightenment regarding a strict programme with boys.
My comment kept getting deleted so I had to retype but here you go. 🫶
Boys have baked mac and cheese for brains so you can’t literally stop him from cheating. BUT, you can run a strict programme that will show him that you’re selfish and value yourself. Then he’ll see that you mean more between the two of you. If you are sweet and lenient and never confront him, then he’ll think that HE’S special and is more valued between you two. So you hog most of your sweetness for yourself.
You have to be willing to drop him if he acts up. You probably won’t reunite but he’ll respect you for retaining value whilst disliking that fact because he isn’t benefiting. The desire of a man is cheap and replicable, whereas respect is independent, tough and abrasive to a weakling.
You have to remember that a boy experiencing you also shaves off your time. Time is an asset you’ll never reproduce. So cut him when he starts acting up, you’ll save yourself the trouble of moving on from a cheating scandal instead of the little red flag crime he committed against you earlier on.
